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Nov 7, 2022Liked by nancy

Some poet said: "in our life, we love just once, and then we always search for the similar" (I'm paraphrasing, cuz it's a translation). I don't know how true it is, but I can see that being real -- if you liked someone, you know that you'll like a similar person as well. However, it's up to you to be open to something new or be focused on what you experienced before.

Aside from that, my opinion would be that a long-term relationship is not something that can be forced or achieved with only hard work or determination. Sometimes people wait for years for a chance to find a partner. The idea is not to force this chance to happen (by, say, increasing the number of blind dates) but is to not miss this chance, once you'll encounter it.

It's hard to say anything more specific here on this broad, deep, and important topic without a prior discussion. Regardless, I should say that I can't, as you ask, "give advice" -- I'm far from being qualified to do so. But I'm always here to discuss it if you feel you want to talk about it :)

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I love this quote so much thank you so much nastia!! This is so beautifully stated, chance definitely isn't something that can be forced, and rushing the process is not any more productive

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your graphic oh my goodness!

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